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1. Treat others with respect
ESMB (Ex Scientologist Message Board) rules:
- Personal insults
- Ad hominems
- Threats or promotion of violence
2. One user account per person.
The use of 2 or more posting accounts is prohibited. Using a proxy account (or sock puppet) to cause trouble will not be tolerated. If you can't say what you need to say with your user account then it probably shouldn't be said in the first place.
3. No posting of complete copyrighted documents (fair use snippets are accepted)
We don't really want to be bothered by Scientology lawyers and lawsuits because of posted copy written material. There are plenty of sites that already host those documents and they can be linked to. Posting "Fair Use" snippets is ok if you want to refer to something to make a point, just don't go posting the entire "History of Man".
4. No private PMs or emails are to be posted without prior permission from the other party.
This is a violation of privacy and won't be tolerated.
5. No posting of other members personal information.
In this group of ex Scientologists we are bound to run into people who we knew in our former "lives" as Scientologists. Given the extreme violations of privacy already rampant in the church it is quite likely that you may know of some personally embarrassing information about another poster. For example: you may have known poster "John" in the church and know that he had gotten into trouble for gambling or theft or promiscuity etc.
To bring up these personally embarrassing things (whether true or not) as some sort of oneupmanship or as a form of retaliation in an argument is really bad form and will not be tolerated on this message board.
6. Link to long pieces of text where possible.
Instead of copying and pasting long pieces of text, snip the bit you want and link to the rest. Experience shows that the longer your post is the less likely it will be read anyway. Of course if your post (your own words) is quite long because you are telling your personal story, that is different. Personal stories will be always be read no matter how long they are because people are interested.
6. Respect the moderators.
Moderation is a thankless task. You can't please all the people all the time but the moderators will do their best to be fair to everyone.
If you disagree with a decision a moderator has made please don't make a huge scene on the board. PM or email the moderator in question and put your case forward. Usually disputes can be resolved amicably by doing this. If you are still unhappy with the outcome, email or PM the board administrator who will have the final say.
7. Don't feed the trolls.
By its nature, this board is likely to attract its share of trouble makers. Trolls thrive on attention so the best thing you can do is to ignore them and report any offending post to a moderator who will deal with the situation. Getting into flame wars with a troll is exactly what they want you to do, so don't give them the satisfaction.
These rules all apply but time & experience has shown that no matter what rules are stated, people still find ways to be disruptive & make the board less than enjoyable.
I've found that over the years some people have more to say about the administrators & moderators & how the board is being run than they do about Scientology. So basically it comes down this this:
- I'm not perfect so don't expect me to be
- I don't owe anyone anything and I'm not on an amends project.
- If I have to tell you how to behave you probably don't belong here.
- I don't have to justify myself. I do my best and if that's not good enough feel free to leave.
Another way of putting it might be "Don't be an jerk and expect to get away with it".
If you're being a jerk and disrupting the board you'll be asked to stop it. If you continue to be a jerk you'll probably be banned. You might be banned for a week, or two weeks or it might be permanent, it depends on how you've behaved previously, how long you've been here etc. Moderators can issue warnings & bans.