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    Hello,
    I am looking for my ex wife; Judy Packer Ruiz. We divorced in 86 I left the church at that time, and I was curious to know if she is doing well.
    I hope that she is. She was a wonderful being, a good friend, and I loved her very much. It has been a long time, and there isn't a day that doesn't go by that I don't think about her.
    John

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    Quote Originally Posted by John Paul Ruiz View Post
    Hello,
    I am looking for my ex wife; Judy Packer Ruiz. We divorced in 86 I left the church at that time, and I was curious to know if she is doing well.
    I hope that she is. She was a wonderful being, a good friend, and I loved her very much. It has been a long time, and there isn't a day that doesn't go by that I don't think about her.
    John
    Welcome John.

    There's a good chance someone here will know something!

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    There's a freewebsite to find people.

    www.zabasearch.com just enter your name first and see what happens.
    Good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by John Paul Ruiz View Post
    Hello,
    I am looking for my ex wife; Judy Packer Ruiz. We divorced in 86 I left the church at that time, and I was curious to know if she is doing well.
    I hope that she is. She was a wonderful being, a good friend, and I loved her very much. It has been a long time, and there isn't a day that doesn't go by that I don't think about her.
    John
    John,

    Bad news(2nd hand) I'm afraid ... I believe she passed away ... breast cancer. I knew Judy very well ... a beautiful being and I think of her often too. I actually attended your wedding to her.

    Sorry to relay bad news ... not my style

    Do well

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    I'm sorry but it looks like a Judy (Judith) Packer-Ruiz passed away in 1996

    Edmonton Journal Obituaries 1996



    http://www.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~ab...tonPage20.html

    If she died in Edmonton, I believe you can obtain a copy of the death certificate via the Alberta CA site:
    http://www.servicealberta.ca/657.cfm

    Hope this is helpful. I'm sorry for your loss, John. Please visit here again and post your story and hers. Love to hear it.

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    Has anyone tried to contacty the OP? One post almost 3 years ago, hm, maybe Emma can contact Paul through their registration e-mail and pass on the sad news? Seems the right thing to do.
    :(
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ogsonofgroo View Post
    Has anyone tried to contacty the OP? One post almost 3 years ago, hm, maybe Emma can contact Paul through their registration e-mail and pass on the sad news? Seems the right thing to do.
    :(
    There is no way any of us can contact him by PM or email but I believe Emma can. I will PM her. I hope she does.

    Here is something John posted on Mark Bunker's blog back in 2008 in reply to Mark's article and posting of The Edge interview of Larry Brennan:

    john ruiz Says:

    March 18, 2008 at 3:56 pm
    This is a very good interview. Thank you for sharing this information. I have been in the church, and found everything that was mention to be true. I have lost my wife and friends because of “fair game” policy.
    John Paul Ruiz

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    We're all going to die someday from something deadly.

    It becomes important and dangerous when we die far too young, from the same things. As scientologists go, it seems that cancer seems to take out far too many of us far too early. This is just an unsupported opinion: a study would have to be done to see if scientology techniques or conditions bring about early death. I wouldn't doubt it though, considering the hidden evil processes hubbard had concocted, post dabbling in evil satanic rituals and all. There is always a price to pay when one dabbles in the mystical universe and the occult.

    I am sorry for your loss John. You will meet her again someday, somewhere. I am sure it will be a very powerful and emotional reunion.
    There is more to the universe(s) then all the words of all the men that have ever lived could ever begin to describe.

    EVERYTHING in scientology, to some degree, is a lie. RUN! Do not look back!

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    thank you for letting me know about Judy. It has been a long time. I have completed most of my training and auditing outside of the Church. I still miss my friends like the Lewis's and Noel North, and many others that I haven't spoken to for years.
    I think what I miss most is the game of being a part of something bigger than myself.
    I audit and still study daily but don't have a group of my own. Something's are worse than having nothing.
    I remember some of the nicest people, like Jeany Franks and Dola King.. so many friends.

    JPR

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