Our whole family was always so wrapped up with being on post, on course, selling books, the whole good little cultie thing. Never any time for anything else, hobbies? Dilletantism! Relax after target one is attained!
Upon getting ready to leave the SO I thought of what I would do later on, one thing was to learn how to play the guitar. I am now teaching myself to play and I really enjoy it. Other things that helped, got a dog, bought a motorcycle (great lonely, winding roads around here), relaxed, talked to others about my experiences. I am also working on flourishing and prospering without the use of any f-ing conditions, admin scales, battleplans, or org board. I'll let you know how this ends up.