You're The One Breaking Up The Family!

[Papabear]

Cary Ghoulston is a fuckhead and if you think he can reform into anything that resembles a human or sentient being, you're fucked

Well Freethinker, I'll give you my two cents as you have given yours. Not to change your mind or anything, more for anyone else reading and my own gratification.

Cary may have been evil or whatever, I don't know what he's done, that's his karma. He'll have to fix that himself. If no one gives him a chance to atone for his misdeeds, what incentive does he have to change?

Now it may be true he can't change, or feels he doesn't need to change. Fine. Not the point to me. See, I can't make him or anyone else change, I can only change myself, and perhaps lead by example.

Damn, I'm not saying this the way I want to, so here's a quote that says it better than I can!

"Sometimes the things that may or may not be true are the things a man needs to believe in the most. That people are basically good; that honor, courage, and virtue mean everything; that power and money, money and power mean nothing; that good always triumphs over evil; and I want you to remember this, that love... true love never dies. You remember that, boy. You remember that. Doesn't matter if it's true or not. You see, a man should believe in those things, because those are the things worth believing in. "

Hub (Robert Duvall) Secondhand Lions

Yeah like that...

Papabear

[Wisened One]

Well Freethinker, I'll give you my two cents as you have given yours. Not to change your mind or anything, more for anyone else reading and my own gratification.

Cary may have been evil or whatever, I don't know what he's done, that's his karma. He'll have to fix that himself. If no one gives him a chance to atone for his misdeeds, what incentive does he have to change?

Now it may be true he can't change, or feels he doesn't need to change. Fine. Not the point to me. See, I can't make him or anyone else change, I can only change myself, and perhaps lead by example.

Damn, I'm not saying this the way I want to, so here's a quote that says it better than I can!

"Sometimes the things that may or may not be true are the things a man needs to believe in the most. That people are basically good; that honor, courage, and virtue mean everything; that power and money, money and power mean nothing; that good always triumphs over evil; and I want you to remember this, that love... true love never dies. You remember that, boy. You remember that. Doesn't matter if it's true or not. You see, a man should believe in those things, because those are the things worth believing in. "

Hub (Robert Duvall) Secondhand Lions

Yeah like that...

Papabear

I like that, too. Got that movie!

[because]

Freethinker,

I never said I believe Cary is reformed. Please re-read the sentence again. I state, that was the last I heard.

BTW I do get how you can feel that way though.

No case on post please!

(just joking lighten up)

[Blue Spirit]

It's much harder to lie and live a lie than it is to just be honest. You may not be able to articulate why you do or don't want to do something and that's ok. Follow your heart. You'll be glad you did later, when it makes more sense. (I hope I'm making sense!)
Chris

You make total sense to me !