She is justifying the abuse with her wins.
She is blinding herself from seeing what is going on around her, and deafening herself from hearing the problems in the Church by only seeing and thinking about her "wins".
Her "wins" are blinding her from the truth.
I think this is a key to unlocking the Scientology mindset. It might even be the beginning of a "ONE SHOT CLEAR" process!
I believe that a great question to ask her is "How do your wins justify Scientology Abuse?"
She would have to chew on that one for a while, but I believe it would get her thinking.
Protest signs could be created which say "Do your wins justify the abuse in the Church?"