Thank you for the update Michele. I just re-read the entire thread (skipping a few pieces here and there). It seems that some progress has been made since your first post. Is it much more calm for you now?
Has your guy been reading any of this thread or some of the other critical websites out there? Can he handle this information yet? Or does he just close himself off from it? It is a very difficult thing to come to terms with the fact that you have been conned.
P.S. To answer your question ... KR's are "Knowledge Reports". This is something that Scientologists do to inform on their fellow members who are not doing exactly what Hubbard says to do. They write up a "Knowledge Report" and hand it in to the "Ethics Officer" who will take the action deemed necessary against the offending person. It's basically like Communism where people will get extra rations for reporting on others. Quite vile and repulsive really, but that's Scientology for you.
P.P.S. I hope that you are keeping your little girl away from this madness.