Originally Posted by Mark A. Baker
Lol ... well, in some
situations it could be 'better' for both/all parties to indulge in hate rather than love ... at least short term.
Unrequited love is hard to live with and suffocating love is even worse ... IOW love isn't always great and hate creates some distance and as long as it isn't overly indulged that can be quite a positive thing.
Love and hate ... both have their place in our lives, as do all
emotions and I don't think we need a little scale to look at and decide if it is "OK" to feel something or not (this isn't being addressed at you personally BTW Mark ... I just used your post as it struck me as worth responding to).