Ogsonofgroo, thank you very much!
Indeed, the process of disassociation is very complex, and you've given me much to think about.
I find it immensely ironic how an Org staff would take pride in tailoring a program for every individual - as you mentioned - when eventually, this becomes such a large part of the problem.
It's not just "Follow the Tech, and only the Tech". It's "Follow the Tech as we shaped it for you". It seems like many times the individual Scientologist doesn't even get to decide how to use the Tech for himself in particular (excluding basic stuff I guess). That decision lays solely with the staff..