One of my biggest issues with the cofs is its lack of sensitivity to the family--you know, mom and dad, sis and little brother Joey? 2D in churchspeak means sex or sex partner. A family is a distraction. Instead of celebrating one of the most beautiful organizations possible, the family, the church makes numerous attempts to extract you from any family. It willfully pulls you off of any familial responsibility. Recalling the SO "day care" and the violated "family time" is only a symptom of a deeper issue, which is the push to not have a family. It's tragic to think of the lost family time, the lost growth from having to be responsible as a mom or dad or even as a child--a family member. The lost opportunities as a parent to nuture and teach one's children is a travesty. Having children is one of the clearest signs of growth and renewal. Taking responsibility for a family as a parent or spouse is a big step towards being fully alive. It's enlightening to think that someone was incredibly selfish and/or deluded when telling me, commanding me, ordering me, cajoling me, intimidating me, forcing me or otherwise coercing me to ignor the needs of my family. I know many did and I was not innocent. What a crazy place. Inexcusably wrong.