Hi Paul,
do you still hold those beliefs about people "passing over"? I am pursuing this in the spiritualist world, trying to get proof, after my Dad died this year
I was more moved by John's passing than anything I have experienced since I left, it's like I wanted to talk to him and never got to do it. I am bereft tonight.
love
Solo
Oh god Solo, I am so sorry you feel this way. I can't handle death at all, I can't seem to get over anyone's death. I am oringinally Scottish and a lot of my family and the general beliefs there are that the deceased are constantly around to communicate with and that they never completely 'move on' until they are forgotten, hence the large amount of 'spiritualist' churches there.
I have been to these services many times and I go with my family when I go back there which isn't very often but I always go. It never ceases to amaze me how they can tell who your deceased friends and family are and how they can give information that no one else could possibly know. I went to see a medium here in Spain a few months ago and he told me about an old school friend that I hadn't seen since I was fifteen, he had been stabbed to death, I didn't even know this at the time and got the call the very next day!
I can't explain it, but sure, I have a few stories on this subject, but I hope you will be alright. Death is so difficult, apart from the fact that you're not with that person you loved is hard enough, however it also reminds us of our own mortality and fragility.
My thoughts are with you Solo and you are in my prayers.
Warmest Regards to you.. Pixie