Sai Ninja 2000
Patron with Honors
thank you
to everyone who has helped me through this and given me good advice and kind words. at times, this is the only place i feel i can turn to.
my brother still isnt talking to me, in fact... he joined the sea org.
like... WHAT!?!? are f*#%ing kidding me??
i gave him my address via my parents and told them to tell him that i love him and wish him the best and that i am always going to be here for him anytime he wants to talk. i left it at that.
but all in all, the past 8 months have been harsh, and a real eye-opener to the reality of all of this. i thought i could skate by. foolish, i know, but i had hoped. anyway.. i'm just so done with the whole thing, i've said my part to my family, its on them now. i've done what i could, i've changed my own life for the better in the mean time, and there is nothing left to do but continue to improve and hope that one day they'll GET IT.
i spent a couple days a few weeks ago reading disconnection stories online, trying to find ones that may have had happy endings, reunited families. they are few and far between.
to those who are experiencing what i have gone through, dont let this get you down. dont let it sink you into apathy. dont succumb to them in the hopes of getting your family back. it is like trying to rehabilitate junkies without support, without taking their drug away. LIVE YOUR LIFE. if they dont wake up and realize what is more important, how many years of your life will you have wasted crying over them? begging them to see the light? struggling to find a workable middle ground? LIVE YOUR LIFE. its worth it to move forward, and be the best you can be. if for nothing else to have SOME kind of happiness...
this is what i have learned from this.. though i know its not over yet, its over for me. i'm done wasting my tears.
to everyone who has helped me through this and given me good advice and kind words. at times, this is the only place i feel i can turn to.
my brother still isnt talking to me, in fact... he joined the sea org.
like... WHAT!?!? are f*#%ing kidding me??
i gave him my address via my parents and told them to tell him that i love him and wish him the best and that i am always going to be here for him anytime he wants to talk. i left it at that.
but all in all, the past 8 months have been harsh, and a real eye-opener to the reality of all of this. i thought i could skate by. foolish, i know, but i had hoped. anyway.. i'm just so done with the whole thing, i've said my part to my family, its on them now. i've done what i could, i've changed my own life for the better in the mean time, and there is nothing left to do but continue to improve and hope that one day they'll GET IT.
i spent a couple days a few weeks ago reading disconnection stories online, trying to find ones that may have had happy endings, reunited families. they are few and far between.
to those who are experiencing what i have gone through, dont let this get you down. dont let it sink you into apathy. dont succumb to them in the hopes of getting your family back. it is like trying to rehabilitate junkies without support, without taking their drug away. LIVE YOUR LIFE. if they dont wake up and realize what is more important, how many years of your life will you have wasted crying over them? begging them to see the light? struggling to find a workable middle ground? LIVE YOUR LIFE. its worth it to move forward, and be the best you can be. if for nothing else to have SOME kind of happiness...
this is what i have learned from this.. though i know its not over yet, its over for me. i'm done wasting my tears.