Vinaire
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This may be a case of stating the obvious but...
One of the more basic problems with identities is that they're usually a complete package of things that include a lot of physical and thought-forms. Very few Beings are liable to even think "self" and find anything other than an identity package.
It's the ultimate paradox, the only thing in all existence that a Being cannot inspect is SELF.
"Finding yourself" is the biggest joke in the Universe.
A Being tends to associate the identity with many impermanent things and so comes to believe that the identity can perish along with those impermanent things. With the forms gone or changed the Being seems to consider that the ability to fully recall an identity has somehow been compromised.
The truth is, of course, that he only considered himself to be the identity/form and none of it is the actual Being.
As someone once said, "He's mocking it up!"
I hope this helps.
Panda.
The Vedic process for discovering SELF is:
"Neti, neti"
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