Feral
Rogue male
Recently a newbie came on to this board with a very heart wrenching story about a family being divided by Scientologies aggressive and coercive 'dissemination' techniques.
Several people jumped on the 'outpoints' in the story and more or lesss accused the person of being phony and although it wasn't said 'OSA'. The thread soon became about who believed the person and who didn't.
I'm going to point out a couple of things here and try to make some sort of 'custom' here; an 'ESMB custom' if we all can 'sort of' agree.
Put yourself in their shoes; If you were as distressed as they seemed can you imagine the additional strain of basically being told you're a liar?
Not all out pointy newbies are OSA or phonies, there can be many reasons for out points in a poster when they first come onto the board, especially if they are distressed.
I would rather look like a fool getting sucked into an OSA trap than upset and estrange a single person in dire need. You can help them while still protecting yourself if in doubt but accusing them of being a plant etc. is pretty 'off'.
So can we have a 'custom' here at ESMB that we go easy on the newbies, especially if they are dealing with an awful set of circumstances?
Whatcha think you blokes?
Several people jumped on the 'outpoints' in the story and more or lesss accused the person of being phony and although it wasn't said 'OSA'. The thread soon became about who believed the person and who didn't.
I'm going to point out a couple of things here and try to make some sort of 'custom' here; an 'ESMB custom' if we all can 'sort of' agree.
Put yourself in their shoes; If you were as distressed as they seemed can you imagine the additional strain of basically being told you're a liar?
Not all out pointy newbies are OSA or phonies, there can be many reasons for out points in a poster when they first come onto the board, especially if they are distressed.
I would rather look like a fool getting sucked into an OSA trap than upset and estrange a single person in dire need. You can help them while still protecting yourself if in doubt but accusing them of being a plant etc. is pretty 'off'.
So can we have a 'custom' here at ESMB that we go easy on the newbies, especially if they are dealing with an awful set of circumstances?
Whatcha think you blokes?