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Scientology Widow
That insightful observation about the two (2) Scientololgies, hard & soft, is quite brilliant!
I am not sure how the other suggestion to mirror that tactic would work, but it sure would be interesting if someone tried it and reported back.
I tend to think that Scientologists lose their euphoric self-induced trance by erosion, from whatever of nature's "elements" (facts, logic, love, reason, joking, criticism, whistleblowing testimonials, et al) they are exposed to. Those things tend to take some time, but there is one (1) sure accelerant to the process of getting a Scientologist to abandon their kooky ksw koolaid drinking indoctrination and blow--
That would be the moment that they are personally attacked by Scientology or Scientologists by having the Scientology "attack tech" aimed at them. Example: Marty Rathbun, who spent decades attacking others with Scientology's full bag of black ops dirty tech tactics. But he left the Sea Org when he was personally being beaten, imprisoned and psychologically pulverized by Miscavige. Then he became the Kind of the Indie Scientologists--until quite predictably some of his fellow Indies began to "black pr" and "dead agent" him. That precisely when he began to retire from Indie world, culminating in his public disavowal of Scientology and Hubbard.
Scientology: Scientologist love to apply it on others. Until someone applies it on them.
psst... Trinity.... see?? I knew it was brilliant. I'll give it a couple of tries and fill out my report in triplicate.
I don't know about other scientologists - I only live with the one - but I completely agree that being on the down side of the attack tek is possibly the most powerful wake up event. I think feeding the kinds of things that were talked about on my other thread (kindness, time away from the org, other philosophies, discussion of critical thinking, etc) followed by attack tek are the mental equivalent of a one/two punch.
The first problem that comes to mind is how to trigger, on demand, attack tek when you want it. And then, for someone like me who has a lot at stake, there is the fear that being attacked will cause enough shame and self loathing to make the scientologist forego other (squirrel) activities and recommit to the cult with even more dedication. I think cycling through squirrel activities/attack tek/recommitment enough times would ultimately result in waking up but it's pretty darn hard on a marriage. Timing is important. Gauging the "right" time is challenging and possibly impossible.
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