However, Scientology isn't
quite like that; I imagine most people get into it after reading a book or two and if that sparks their interest, doing the Comm. course. If they got nowhere on the course that'd probably be the end of the matter. But I've yet to meet a scio. who didn't get
anything out of TR0 at least, not to say improved communication skills on the subsequent drills. The bait in the trap....
[snip]
'Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me'. Yes, certainly.
If
nothing in Scientology worked I'd be in complete agreement with you; but that simply isn't the case (no word-play intended...
)
As I said at the top, you almost certainly got something out TR0; you've probably used the study-tech. to advantage; if you've had auditing you found that getting off withholds brings a sense of relief...(I'm talking about myself here, not trying to project onto you, yes?).
The overriding point to it all is that you experience
change (as well as charge, LOL). Even if things don't go as well as expected, it demonstrates that
something is happening. There are always just enough raisins in the turd that you decide to stick with it rather than give it toes; this, IMO, is part of the 'brainwashing' process.
As I've said elsewhere, it wouldn't be much of a trap if there was no bait, or if the bait was all clearly and obviously putrid crap.
That the bait was not all clearly or obviously putrid crap, and indeed may have had some value, does not by itself completely excuse the "victim" from
any and
all responsibility for staying for years and years past the point when any responsible, non-developmentally disabled adult would leave.
Responsibility for, in many cases, disconnecting from his or her spouse and children.
Responsibility for, in many cases, ruining not only his or her financial security, but the financial security of his or her spouse or children.
And it certainly does not excuse knowing participation in a group that discriminates against "Illegal PCs," demonizes "psychs" as the source of all evil, refers derisively to "wogs" and "DBs," and in many cases -- with
your knowledge -- lies to and deceives
other people. And coerces
other people into financially disastrous transactions and debts.
And do
not tell me you didn't know. That you had
no idea.
The early benefits you describe are the heart of any good scam. Any ponzi scheme. Somebody asks you to invest with him. He promises you 5% interest
per month. You start with $1000 to be safe. Each month he pays you $50. After 6 months you have received $300, and you decide to invest $10,000 because the investment is so good and so reliable.
And then he vanishes with all of your money. And you realize, duh, that he was paying you the $50 "interest" per month with your own money. There was no investment. There was no business.
Was he a scumbag? Yes. Is he responsible? Yes.
But that doesn't mean that you were completely and totally without responsibility. That doesn't mean that, according to the standards we apply to responsible, non-developmentally disabled adults, you weren't an idiot.
Listen, I fell for the "trap" too. I stayed far, far too long also.
And I'm not suggesting that the COS "victims" take
all responsibility. Just that they take
some responsibility.
Yeah, somebody honestly got good results from the TRs, or Dianetic auditing, or whatever. Is that really a good reason, a reasonable reason, an
adult reason, why 5, 10, 15 years later they have spent all of their money, and/or disconnected from their families, and/or find that they have been working in the Sea Org 80 hours a week for $24 or $40 per week? And in that case they have
no responsibility?
Oh yes, they were "brainwashed" -- because they had a good experience on the TRs five years ago. (And yes, I'm being sarcastic.)