Your answer to Alanzo was a good one too. I have no problem with it.
Panda's answer to me was like this:
You are babysitting the little boy next door, and he wants to play with his Army Men.
So he gets them out and spreads them around on the floor. You have your army men and he has his.
He starts making explosion noises and machine gun noises and you "fire back" and say "I got your headquarters!"
The little boy starts crying.
So you say, "Here! Your canon got my headquarters!! I'm on the run!!!" and you start moving your remaining army men backward in retreat.
The little boy immediately stops crying and starts laughing, coming after you with his army - victorious in his mind. And way more "up-tone".
He would blow so much charge and his needle would be floating, too.
The little boy had trouble distinguishing the reality of his situation.
You really didn't blow up his headquarters.
He never had army headquarters in the first place.
He's just a little boy who lives next door.
See?
That's what Panda's handling for my "fear" would have been like, had anyone attempted it in 16 years of auditing, including DofPs which created C/Ses designed to take it up.
It was a cult-installed phobia. And I believed it. It's like "Satan is going to get you." or "You will burn in hell for all eternity unless you come to Church every Sunday."
A cult-installed phobia.
Nothing more.
Nothing less.