loose cannon
Patron with Honors
You've just reminded me something.
As a reply to Steve's patterns, I'm going to quote some Ruth Minshull's paragraphs.
"I AM SOMEBODY"
His oversized ego and aggressiveness frequently win him a position as boss. He appears to be a man of action, but usually he merely creates a flurry that's mostly noise. When the dust settles, we can see that little was accomplished.
Since his blustering distemper thrives best in a climate of emergencies, he frequently creates them.
He knows exactly how to handle people: "Tell them off," "I say, shoot em all," "You gotta be tough to get along in this world."
"I'M RIGHT WHENEVER I'M WRONG"
This one tells you what's wrong with things; that's all he tells you. You're wrong; they're wrong; it's wrong. The only thing he never says is "I'm wrong." He's always right – even when he's wrong. Don't try to confuse him with facts. This isn't the only tone trying to make others wrong (every tone below 2.0 does it one way or another), but the 1.5 is direct about it. You always know where you stand with him; you're wrong, of course, just by being there.
-- Ruth Minshull, How to Choose Your People, Chapter 11: Anger
Now the question is, is that Steve's chronic tone? Or is it his tone regarding the Freezone? Or did just a Freezoner piss him off?
As a reply to Steve's patterns, I'm going to quote some Ruth Minshull's paragraphs.
(Quoting Steve's patterns)
I'm getting a little tired...I left the Church...I studied the scene...I found people...I spoke up LOUD and CLEAR...I didn't make any agreements...because I believed in HELPING...Marty came online almost immediately thereafter (implying that Steve Hall is the first, best, most, biggest, friendliest, earliest, youngest, longest, fastest, etc.)...
"I AM SOMEBODY"
His oversized ego and aggressiveness frequently win him a position as boss. He appears to be a man of action, but usually he merely creates a flurry that's mostly noise. When the dust settles, we can see that little was accomplished.
Since his blustering distemper thrives best in a climate of emergencies, he frequently creates them.
He knows exactly how to handle people: "Tell them off," "I say, shoot em all," "You gotta be tough to get along in this world."
(Quoting Steve's patterns)
The Freezone FAILED because you guys...you guys quietly went about your business...You guys should've...You don't...You don't...You don't...You aren't...You think...You SOLD US OUT...you sold us out...You never...while you were having...Your entire group...because you cooperated...You have no right...you NOTHING...You refused to wear your hats...You guys feel...YOU ARE...trying to prove you're right...you aren't...Your Freezone stinks!
"I'M RIGHT WHENEVER I'M WRONG"
This one tells you what's wrong with things; that's all he tells you. You're wrong; they're wrong; it's wrong. The only thing he never says is "I'm wrong." He's always right – even when he's wrong. Don't try to confuse him with facts. This isn't the only tone trying to make others wrong (every tone below 2.0 does it one way or another), but the 1.5 is direct about it. You always know where you stand with him; you're wrong, of course, just by being there.
-- Ruth Minshull, How to Choose Your People, Chapter 11: Anger
Now the question is, is that Steve's chronic tone? Or is it his tone regarding the Freezone? Or did just a Freezoner piss him off?